#Grief #BookReview: About the Real stages…

Grief has been my oldest pal or should I say the ghosts of grief could never leave me. It is one emotion that can never be suppressed. I’ve always poured it into my poetry. So, when I saw Kaye’s book that talks about personal grief, my ghosts of grief resurfaced to speak to me. I could deal with them within one day, could write two poems and finish reading this new release of my blogger buddy within a day. I could feel her words.

A journey through grief is a torture that can never be explained yet Kaye gathers the strength to talk about it, as it is cathartic; it provides inner strength and gives a reassurance that grief may be personal but not individualistic. Grief changes us, it alters our life and we wonder where are the friends and family who disappear after the funeral. It is a deserted path and we have to traverse it alone. “Grief never leaves, it just finds its way into a comfortable spot within.” I could relate to these words of the author. We have to learn to live with it. 

In this book, Kaye calls grief “a disease” and urges grievers to pay attention to their health. They should get out and go for a walk, talk to people, as human connection at such a time is extremely important. We may be sad and unmotivated, but we have to take up some activity to get out of the darkness, and find a new way of living. Another meaningful advice is that It is better to face the grief demons than become susceptible to addiction of any sort.

Real Stages of Grief may be different for each griever; we may seek a comforting hand, but solace eventually comes from within. “It is not words we need in our hours of grief; it’s an ear and hugs,” says Kaye. However, she warns against scammers and lurkers who want to be friends with you. “Beware of sob stories from those seeking financial gain.” Many more significant aspects of grief, and ways of emerging from those dark alleys have been shared in this book. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

HAPPY READING!

A Haibun

Perennial Pain

It’s the third Diwali without you. Darkness still surrounds me. Frozen heart refuses to accept logic; numb eyes return to the door again. I know you are not here but I don’t want to light any diyas or any electric lights. Diwali wishes sound like a slap in the face. Do you remember my enthusiasm for burning crackers and eating sweets the whole day? I don’t want to buy any now. I just soak in the mist of those memories. I have no nepenthe, but darkness gives more solace than the artificial lights.

festive occasions –
a yawning rumbling thunder
perennial pain.
© Balroop Singh

Thank you.

Here is the Amazon link for my grief poetry book: Just One Goodbye

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#BookReviews: 5 Stars for each one!

Leora’s Dexter Stories capture the challenging times in the lives of the Wilson family as they move from one farm to another in search of work  to support their seven children. A story of togetherness, changing seasons, and struggle through disease, and the great depression, it brings alive the history of those times when life was really hard. There were no gadgets to ease the workload, and manual labor was the only option for the poor.

A heartbreaking account of whooping cough and the loss of two babies, Jack and Jean, reveals how helpless people were in the face of adverse circumstances. Kidney’s book is an excellent historical artifact, featuring both happy and sad stories, as well as lovely pictures of her family. A wonderful mother and a devoted wife, Leora’s resilience stands out in most of the stories. She believed that “the greatest successes are those who have some hardships in getting there.” 

It is surprising to note that in 1933, one-fourth of the nation’s population comprised of families with no regular income. However, sons valued family and were worried about their parents. They sent money home. Delbert and Donald were happy when they joined the Navy, as they could get enough to eat, learn a trade, and see new places. Extreme temperatures and drought exacerbated the situation, but the Wilsons persevered and navigated through the depression with positive results. 

A Bold Bargain is much more than just a bargain. It is a heartwarming story of kindness and love. It highlights the loneliness of an old woman, Mrs. Fletcher, and the plight of Naomi, who is struggling to raise her two sons alone. Jack comes like an Angel into their lives. He knows what hunger is; he understands the importance of love, and is immediately pulled by the need to provide support. His sterling qualities unfold as the plot progresses. 

The story flows at a steady pace, keeping you invested with new developments. A parallel plot of mink poachers adds an interesting angle to it. Sikes’ characters will win your heart, as they emit positive vibes, and have been crafted with great respect and tenderness, especially Wolf, Kitten, and Mitzi. There is an amazing relationship between Jack and his furry friends. Jack is just eighteen, but circumstances have molded him into a responsible and caring person.

Some delightful moments that bring joy into Queenie’s life won my heart, elevating this book above the average. The ending is extremely well-written. Highly recommended.

‘The Mystery of the Pink Poodle’ is much more than just a mystery. It is a captivating story of relationships, parental love, and friendship. The tenor of this book is that wealth and fame are insignificant if homes are devoid of love and happiness.

Alina is the daughter of rich and famous divorced parents, and neither of them has any time for her. A summer trip to Conrad gives her a purpose and brightens up her life quite unexpectedly. What she thought was a creepy innhouse, with old-fashioned furniture, turns out to be a place full of mystery and warmth. She meets twin sisters and their pleasing mother here, and some lovely bonds are created. 

Mimi King is an interesting character with a colorful past. She wants her pink poodle, and Alina wants to help her, but nobody knows anything about it. The curiosity and excitement of the teens adds an element of charm to the mystery. Will they be able to solve the mystery of the pink poodle?

This is a heart-warming story with wonderful characters. Even cold and aloof Michael Doherty understands the importance of relationships and agrees to write Mimi’s and Henri La Bouche’s story. 

This book is a kaleidoscope of syllabic poetry, free verse, art, and pictures. Cheadle’s love for wildlife and her astute observation shine through ‘Burning Butterflies,’— a magnificent symbol of transformation and hope. Highly informative and evocative, her poems inspire us to reflect on mankind’s attitude toward flora and fauna. It also lays bare the grim reality of the harm that is being done to the natural environment.

Cheadle’s poems acquaint us with the playful nature of animals, exhort us “to learn from animal friends,” and treat them with respect. 

She warns, “Let the natural world remain
Or we’ll all implode in the burning.” 
She uses anaphora to emphasize her point – 
“Shout, make your point heard,
Shout, many voices cry out
Save the black rhino
Shout
Our voices cry out…”
“Act now – Save lonely black rhino
Act now – Save lonely black rhino.”

Cheadle’s poetry is intense yet accessible, informative, and stirring. The imagery of ‘River Fun’ and ‘The Buffalo’ made me pause and there are many such poems that need to be read again and again to understand her love for animals and birds.

I’ve read the book on my laptop to absorb the beauty of artwork and admire the stunning pictures of wild animals in their natural habitat. I would call it creativity at its best.

Thank you. Happy reading!
Balroop Singh.

Here is the link for my New Release – Beyond the Fetters

#Poetry #BookReviews

Love for poetry

Poetry books are my favorites and reviewing them is as delightful as reading the poems. Each book I picked up this month has a spirit of its own.

‘Ancient Voices: Poems about Ancient Egypt’ is an enlightening and engrossing collection. It reveals many interesting aspects of Egypt. Ancient voices of people reverberate through Pisturino’s poems, carrying the same messages of love, faith, fear and waiting, so familiar to humanity throughout the ages. The names of the Gods and Goddesses may have been different, but the expectations and the prayers of those people sound similar. “I lift up my hands to the heavens and send a loving prayer to all the Gods… for their blessings.”

Written in blank verse and simple style, Pisturino’s poetry exhorts you to “listen to the music of the stars.” as “the gods are sending you messages.”

A dive into Egyptian culture, many poems in this collection tell delightful tales older than “the burning desert,” while others celebrate the love for the deities who drive away disease and hunger, send prosperity to humble homes, and protect the people. 

Stunning imagery like “Blushing with this celestial embrace,

“He scatters pink and orange jewels across the sky,” “blood-stained horizon,” and “a golden sea of sand,” adds a dash of literary touch to the poems.

 ‘The Blue Lotus’ gives a fascinating peek into the afterlife through the eyes of Egyptians who “will not work in the afterlife,” will be free of pain and disease,” will be calm and tranquil, cooing with the doves.”

This collection of poems takes you back in time on the wings of imagination to explore the hearts of people. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Gratitude & No Fairy Tale’ is the third collection of Finn’s ‘Just Her Poetry’ series. True to her style, Finn delights you with haibun ( a combination of a haiku and an image). She captures various moods of nature in these poems. ‘Dancing Summer’ and ‘Perpetual Joy’ made me pause and think about how nature nudges us to dream and savor each moment.

Though I’ve read ‘Poetry from No Fairy Tale’ earlier, it spoke to me once again, as some of the poems have been changed. Written in free verse and blank verse, they explore various themes. ‘Fingers of the Sea’ enticed me and the stunning metaphors lend a human form to the sea. ‘Ocean’ and ‘Ocean Song’s’ imagery transported me to the seashore and I could feel the caresses of waves on my bare feet. Such is the power of Finn’s poetry. I love ‘The Waters,’ a subtle comment on how words could hurt.

Some of the poems tell a personal story, like the reflection on “we all grow old,” the worry about the lump, the eagerness to “do one more thing,” and the reassurance that eating organic is not going to make much difference! 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

‘King Copper: Our Dog’s Life in Poetry’ is a heartwarming tribute to a pet whose love shines through Scott’s poems. This handsome guy looks stunning in the pictures that the poet has shared. I am not a dog lover, but I can understand how much love and understanding these furry friends hold in their hearts. Copper’s unconditional love has been beautifully expressed in memorable poetry by his mom.

No less than a celebrity, the poet tells us that Copper was a show-stopper, a hugger, and a kisser. His graceful gait, his charming smile, his slobbery kisses, and his dedication to guard his loving family made him an adorable golden boy. The warmth that radiates from his amber eyes reaches your heart if you look at his pictures.

Most of the poems celebrate Scott’s love for Copper, but there are a few that tug at my heart as they bring out the poet’s grief when she hears “a dog barking in the distance or misses the sounds like “nail click on the kitchen floor.”

‘Loss is Loss’ perfectly captures the emotions of those who grieve, a feeling which can only be understood by those who know that mourning seeps into our skin, a constant reminder that our loved one will never return.

However, ‘Rainbow Bridge’ breathes positivity and encourages acceptance, followed by Seasons that inspires to live with “sweet memories,” finding solace in the making a plea to spring to “free the ache,” and I love how Copper Boy responds – “I’m sitting by your side; I never went away.” Yes, dear Copper, you live within us, and thanks to your poet mom, who made you immortal through her poetry. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Thank you. Happy reading!
Balroop Singh.
Here is the Amazon link for my new poetry book.

For more poetry, hang out with  Hues Of Hope 

#BookReviews – Five Stars for Each One

Meadowlark Songs is a fascinating account of Kidney’s motherline legacy – a story of seven generations through challenging times. Many memorable and poignant moments have been captured by her with poise. It is a fabulous homage to the women whose resilience shines through this poetic tribute, made exquisite by beautiful family pictures.

Written in free verse and a straightforward style, this book gives a peek into the history, high mortality rate, and lifestyles of the people. My heart goes out to Leora, who was not allowed to go to high school, but she resolved that her own daughters would become high school graduates.

‘Song of My Heart’ reiterates how Kidney has learned profound lessons of “adaptability and tenacity” from her ancestors. It is a marvel how she has collected so many stories and anecdotes about them! It is a heart-warming and staggering collection.

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Murray introduced me to the ‘Dawn of Humanity’ with her trilogy and kept relating the amazing stories of prehistoric tribes through her second trilogy – ‘Crossroads.’ ‘Endangered Species’ continues her quest to reveal more about the evolution of man. Set in the European region of 75,000 years ago, her characters have learned to speak and cook their meat, they seem to have developed better weapons and medical skills. However, even in this era, the main focus of the people is hunting for food and safety.

It is interesting to note that dreams and visions play an important role in guiding Shanadar who considers himself a “dreamer” but is chosen by Xhosa to rescue Yu’ung and guide her to her tribe’s new home. Yu’ung is a trained hunter, exudes confidence, understands the environment better than men but realizes how different were the fragile spears, which were thrown from a distance by the Tall Ones to assault their prey. She learns healing techniques from Kriina and has the reputation of being “unafraid to be unique.” She has been brilliantly crafted. 

This well-researched and fascinating book reveals the struggles of Neanderthals and the Tall Ones. It also highlights the determination, courage and the prowess of early humans, eager to learn more. If you like prehistoric fiction, you’ll find it interesting.

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Voodoo or Destiny is a thought-provoking tale of heartbreak and hurt. Claire’s emotional turmoil will touch your heart. Sikes skillfully brings out the anger and pain of betrayal. Voodoo therapy suggested by her friend sounds like a fun activity until she hears the unbelievable!

A cute short story, with two well-crafted characters and a dash of fantasy may seem simple but it explores profound aspects of the human psyche and the impact of life-changing decisions. An enjoyable read. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

This short story comments on the relationship of two brothers and how selfish people take their siblings for granted. The expectations of Rowdy and his mother shocked me but Sikes refrains from passing judgment. In an objective manner, she tells you the story of Quentin and Rowdy and keeps it open for her reader’s critique.

True to her short story style, Sikes keeps her narrative succinct and focuses on character development. Quentin emerges to be a winner despite all that he has to bear.  A page-turner, this story kept me guessing until the court’s decision. It is an engaging and heart-wrenching tale.

Thank you, dear readers. Happy reading. More reviews are coming soon.

Thank you for reading my poetry.
Here is the Amazon link for my new poetry book.

For more poetry, hang out with  Hues Of Hope 

#Review #Poetry #Hope

I rarely share the reviews of my books here, but this one is exceptional as I am thrilled at the comprehensive nature of this review. Many thanks to Adam, whom I met recently through his analyses of the poems shared by blogger buddies.

I am delighted to note that he could discern the healing power of my poetry, that I had forgotten. I am reading ‘Hues of Hope’ again to soothe my spirit, which started believing that words are hollow and meaningless after a devastating loss.

Thank you dear readers. Please click on the above link to read the full review.

Here is the Amazon link for my new poetry book.

For more poetry, hang out with  Hues Of Hope